Teen parenting affects a million teens in the US per year.
These data include both boys and girls. There are actually
about 500,000 babies born to teens each year. This rate has
steadily declined but still affects many teens who are not
yet ready to be parents because they haven't gotten out of
childhood yet themselves.
Teen parenting often means single parenting. Rarely does
the couple live together or get married. In many
situations, the father of the baby doesn't stay involved in
the baby's life and the young girl must obtain the help of
her own parents to help raise the baby. This is doubly
difficult if the teen mother belongs to a single parent
family.
Doctors and healthcare workers stress teen parenting
classes for teens who are about to become parents. They can
learn about acceptable standards of care and all of the
developmental issues involved in raising babies and young
children.
Some schools address teen parenting by having daycare
facilities in the school so that teen moms can continue
their schooling and graduate from high school. The teen is
allowed to see her baby during the day and some portion of
the day is spent learning how to properly care for the
child. Even with such school programs, many teen moms drop
out of school and go on welfare to raise their
children.
Teen parenting is more accepted in today's society.
Forty years ago, a pregnant teen was sent away to have her
child and the child was often adopted away. In the last
twenty years, such homes for unwed mothers just don't exist
anymore and girls are increasingly choosing to have and
raise their children. Unfortunately, being a teen mother is
a risk factor for getting pregnant again and being a teen
mother all over again. This puts a strain on the teen mom
and on society in general.
Teen parenting goes better when there is a caring family
that participates in the raising of the child. This can
include the parents of the teen mom, aunts, siblings and
close friends that together work hard to take the stress
off the teen mom and help raise the child in a stable
environment. Not growing up in a stable family environment
is one of the greatest risks to a child of a teen
mother.
While it is rarer, teen parenting can involve a single
teen father as well. Sometimes the mother wants to give up
the baby but the father of the baby doesn't want to agree
to that. Once it is established that he is the biological
father, the father can raise the child as his own much like
a teen mother. He is given the same rights as a teen mom
and hopefully will take advantage of the same opportunities
for education as are offered to a teen mother. Teen fathers
also need a stable home environment and the help of family
and friends to raise his child in as healthy a home as is
possible.